How does the law of attraction work?

Why is The Law of Attraction so Hard to Apply?

There are many powerful steps you can take right now to apply the secret law of attraction in your life right now.

The lower your frequency the harder it is for you to attract what you want.  The law of attraction will simply keep you at the same level where you presently are. There are many ancient practices that can help in shifting people's overall frequency to astonishingly higher levels very easily and in a matter of minutes.

Very often people ask, “Why is the law of attraction so hard to apply to my life?”

Perhaps you are one of the many people who feel a bit frustrated by the results you are getting.  

Most people believe that attraction begins and ends with negative or positive thoughts. While your thoughts do matter, there is more to the attraction process and much more to understand about the nature of thought.

You see that negative and positive thoughts do have a charge.  A negative thought has a much weaker charge than a higher more positive thought.

Success with the law of attraction depends on you having higher thoughts not simply because they affirm what you want to attract but because the higher your overall thought frequency the higher your attraction.

For most people, it is quite hard to elevate their thought vibration to a higher more powerful frequency.  It’s not as easy as simply saying, “Today, I am going to think positive thoughts.”  After many years of thinking in a negative way, a person's overall frequency is quite low and it will take a little extra to change that overall frequency.  

The lower your frequency the harder it is for you to attract what you want.  The law of attraction will simply keep you at the same level where you presently are.  One or two positive thoughts will not automatically make you a magnet for attracting what you want.  

There are many ancient practices that can help in shifting people's overall frequency to astonishingly higher levels very easily and in a matter of minutes.  Often we turn away from teachings that are foreign to us but the reality is, if you want to change your life you must be willing to do things differently from the way you have always done it.

You must be willing to be open in order to maximize your understanding of the law of attraction and your ability to manifest what you want.

The secret to the law of attraction

You Only Need 51% Belief To Begin Attracting

You don't need 100% belief, just 51% to start the process of receiving whatever you want in life to become your reality.

I've seen too many people 'beat themselves up' as they learn about the Law of Attraction and begin to apply it in their lives. Why are they so hard on themselves?  Because when their desire doesn't materialize in a few days, they think they aren't doing it right or they don't believe enough. They are under the impression that in order to receive, they must have 100% belief--no doubt at all. And so they try to convince themselves, and the Universe, that they DO have 100% belief--when, in their heart, they don't.

Here's good news! You don't need 100% belief, just 51% to start the process of receiving all your goals, desires and hopes whatever you want in life will start to become your reality. Just believe that it's possible for you to have what you've asked for. All you need to do is tip the scales slightly and you will begin to notice small (or big) evidence that your desire is on its way. 

As you stay in the mindset of possibility, the possibility grows into probability. Probability grows into belief and belief grows into certainty. Certainty is the opposite of doubt. 

Here's the true story I received this week from Tony, a coaching client:

"Since learning about the Law of Attraction, I have discovered that there are times when I cannot BE the way I'd like to be. This week, I found myself in an impossible situation and I remembered what you said: 'Instead of starting from a place of certainty, 100% guarantee, start with it's possible.' 

We visited friends in another state this weekend. On our return flight, airport security was so tight, we missed our flight by four minutes (we arrived at our gate--literally the farthest gate in the airport-- with six minutes to spare, but they closed the aircraft ten minutes before departure and did not open it for anyone). We were put on the standby list for the next flight, which was full. Every flight after that next one was full, and it was important that we get back to work Monday--we both have full schedules, and staying another night was less than ideal.

I couldn't bring myself to believe that we were going to get on that next flight as 'Standby.' My wife was still freaking out that we missed our previous flight, we had run out of baby food, and my son was getting cranky for a nap.

I could not bring myself to believe we were getting on that flight, but I kept thinking 'it's possible.' The next thing I know, one of the flight attendants took a fancy to my son and started chatting with my wife, and before you know it, we have--literally--the last two seats on the aircraft, and she arranged it so they were together, and we had a window. (Our son sat on our lap.)

It's still hard to believe I 'vibrated' us onto that aircraft, but I did keep it open as a possibility. So you were right, I only had to believe by 51%. Thank you, Rebecca!"

Tony G., New York

Think about all the times you HAVE received something when you still had doubts about it. What is your desire today?  Has anyone else ever received what you desire?  If so, then is it possible that you can have it too? 

If you can believe...You will receive it.

The Secret to Getting What You Want

The outside world should never influence your inner world.  Because you do not have a full understanding of how the law of attraction works or the nature of your thoughts, you continue to create again and again the old conditions.

Although many people are aware of the law of attraction after seeing the secret few people really get it.  The law of attraction is both easy and hard all at once.  Why do some people get it while others fail to see any results?

Some people have what some call think skin.  They have an ability to go inside of themselves and ignore the outer creation.  No matter what others are saying to them or no matter what is going on around them, they have the power to go inside and trust what is inside of themselves more.

Some may call them dreamers; others may say that they are introverts but that nature is the power it takes to apply the secret.

Be in the world but not of the world.

Reality is a reflection of your inner world, that is the true secret.  To be able to manifest what you deeply want in life you must have total faith in your inner world.  You must become aware of the images that fly by as you go about your day.  The law of attraction never takes a break; it is always giving to you what you are dreaming up.

As you become aware of your inner dream you can begin to control it and mold it to what you would like.  The outside world should never influence your inner world.  Because you do not have a full understanding of how the law of attraction works or the nature of your thoughts, you continue to create again and again the old conditions.

Someone’s disappointment in life should never influence your actions.  You create your reality the moment you become aware of your own ability to dream it into existence regardless of what anyone says is possible or impossible.

The secret law of attraction works but in order to use it successfully, you must become aware of your own dream.

The Law Of Attraction And Relationships

The Law of Attraction is an extremely powerful force that affects our lives, whether or not we are aware of how it is working.

Have you ever had the experience of a stranger coming out of the blue and having a piece of information that you needed? Have you ever been steered away from making a mistake by a friend or stranger in the right place at the right time? Can you recall what this felt like?

Have you ever sensed your role in another person's manifestation of an experience? Perhaps you gave them something or did something that felt right for you and for them it was an uncanny coincidence. Have you ever found yourself in the right place to provide something important for another person? Perhaps you felt compelled to talk to a stranger and you had the piece of information they were looking for?

I call this interplay between individuals 'Dancing.' We dance with others every day of our lives. When we are open and willing, we participate and assist in the manifestation of their experience and others do the same for us. Some of these experiences are positive, and we feel like we are in the very flow of life. Other experiences are more challenging, or even negative, and can leave us questioning how we came to attract such a negative or painful experience into our lives.

As a therapist, coach and individual, I have come to understand the Law of Attraction is an extremely powerful force that affects our lives, whether or not we are aware of how it is working at any one time. Simply put, what we give our focus, emotion, and attention, we attract into our lives. Moving towards deliberate attraction requires an awareness of our intention, attention and emotional state. In a sense, we move from subconsciously creating events in our lives to consciously and deliberately affecting our experience.

When talking about the law of attraction in relationships, several questions come up. These include: Can we attract a specific person into our lives? Am I responsible - did I attract - this abuse from my colleague, partner, friend, or family members? How can I attract the relationship I want? 

One of the issues these questions have in common is a search for where our responsibility ends and another person's begins. 

Matching (Picking our Partners)

Everyone that you attract into our lives and engage with is a match for something that you are vibrating at either a conscious or subconscious level. 

If you want to know what you are vibrating, look at who you are attracting. It is a perfect match!

There are different kinds of matches to our vibrations. The most obvious thing is when we get a similar match. 

Ideally, we want to feel empowered, optimistic and joyful and attract other empowered and optimistic people to us in all aspects of our life. When this happens, there is a sharing and connection that feels wonderful. It is a perfect match!

When feeling down, (low vibration), you may attract a friend who calls to complain about all the things they are down about. In this case, our low vibration is attracting someone of similar vibration. We will often engage with the person and stay at that low vibration or perhaps collectively go lower. How does this feel?

Other Matches

Have you ever had a friend or client stuck in a 'victim vibration' who seemed to attract abusive partners in their romantic or business relationships? Their vibration as a victim can be a match for a potential abuser. A second match to the 'victim vibration' is the rescuer. Rescuers, victims, and abusers create what we know as the 'victim' or 'drama' triangle. These three roles vibrate matches to each other and individuals often get stuck moving from point to point in the triangle. In one relationship they may be the victim. IN the next, they may be the rescuer or the abuser.

For example, many of the youth I have worked with in custody fall into this trap. They are often violent to 'rescue' a friend or to avenge a wrong. When caught, they feel victimized by the police. When sentenced into custody, they feel like victims of the justice system. They talk about getting even (offender role), blaming others for their situation (victim role) and wanting to stay with their boy or girlfriend to keep them from getting into trouble (rescuer role). They continue to attract the same three matches into their lives and custody becomes a revolving door.

There are other less obvious variations of this triangle. Chronically sick individuals, very desperate or needy people, often vibrate matches for people who try to help them or use them in some way. 

3 Ways to Use the Secret in Your Life

The first step

One of the first things you can do with the secret law of attraction in your life is to learn as much as possible about the law of attraction. Learn the nature of the law of attraction and how it affects your life.

At the heart of the mystery are your thoughts, which go far beyond the positive thinking of negative verses. If I understood the true nature of thinking, I would be one step above those who believe they understand the law of attraction.

The second step

The second step to mastering the secret law of attraction is to create a diary and start writing. Do you know that most people have no idea what their predominant thoughts are and don't even know what they want?

When you get a diary, you can explore your feelings on a much deeper level. When you see your feelings on paper, avoid being overcrowded.

The third step

The third step in applying the secret law of attraction is to take small measures based on your goals. With your new Journal of the Law of Attraction, you can track every day what you do and what you do. It is very difficult for most people to see how they are spending their time. By defining a particular plan and keeping it in your diary, you can better see how your week, your month, and then your year passed.

You can spend a lot of time doing many of us doing the same tedious actions that keep giving us the same bad results. Second, many people say that the law of attraction has not worked in their lives, but that the law of attraction has worked. It just worked to keep giving you the same conditions you created.